Love and sexuality in the human relationship.

Our sexuality could be weak or strong, and the sex is the central aspects of the partner relationship which could be motivated or demotivate for all of us. Love, together with awareness and understanding, is what brings us into a relationship with the people and things around us. In essence, love is a relationship (Frankl, 2011). 

According to Frankl, the only way to understand other human beings as they indeed are at their innermost core, is to love them. In Frankl’s psychotherapeutic system called Logotherapy, love is as fundamental and powerful force in human life as are the drives for sex and power. Love, together with awareness and understanding, is what brings us into a relationship with the people and things around us. In essence, love is the relationship. (Frankl, 2011). Victor Frankl expresses that connection beautifully in one of his books:

“Two are superior to one since they have a decent return for their work: If one tumbles down, his companion can enable him to up. Be that as it may, feel sorry for the man who falls and has nobody to enable him to up.” 

Our relationship in this life according to simple rules is attachment, love, and dependency, building a great human existence. Comparably says Yalom in his existential psychotherapy book.

“To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.” 

― Irvin D. Yalom,

All loving relationships contain ambivalent feelings. As a human, we know how to love because we learn from our parents or caregivers. Our initial associations with guardians and parents assist us with forming an attachment to love which endures throughout our lives. This is once in a while alluded to as transference.Freud called attention to when we discover an affection process, we are really “re-discovering” it. Thus, the regularly perceived wonder of people who select accomplices help them to remember their mother/father. We have all observed it. (Freud & Rieff, 1997)

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A person whom we love is a part of ourselves according to Buber philosophy I – thou. Freud described something unusual and similar. We include aspects of those we love in ourselves. Their characteristics, beliefs, feelings, and attitudes become part of our psyche. He called this process “internalisation”. Expressions like “my spouse are my better half” or “I am searching for my soul mate” contain Freud’s conception of the depth of the relationship between people who love each other. (Freud & Rieff, 1997) 

That of the considerable number of variables in human life that anticipate the best positive results, reliable connections are number one. These explorations demonstrated discoveries incorporate to what extent we live, the soundness of our bodies, the prosperity of our psyches, and the joy we involvement throughout everyday life.

Research shows that people who live in a relationship are less depressed suicidal and happier and live healthier. It is proofed that a human who has a disease have more chance to survive when they will be in a relationship with others and stay with a group rather than have to suffer alone. Particular that was noticed with children who lived in an orphanage. Those who were separated from others die early for the same disease. (Cozolino, L. J. 2014). That show sufficient evidence that humanity has to be together with other specialists in a difficult time. 

Moreover, that is the reasons why relationships are important. The proof that people are social animals is extensive and specific. Corresponding connections are a fundamental part of health for people. Giving careful consideration to acquaintanceship, family and other relationships could enable a human to enhance the well-being and flourish. It is through identifying with other individuals that human develops and advance how to extend and grow through the experience of affection in love and importance. That is why we know that individuals assume a critical part of our lives. 

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